To accomplish this by getting accurate information out to the public about what really makes relationships work. Normally, so much of what we think and believe about relationships simply doesn’t work, but since we don’t know otherwise we just continue with what we know. We then become disappointed and discouraged when our relationships seem so difficult. The fact is there are many simple and powerful things we can do in our relationships to make them really work. Simple, though, doesn’t necessarily mean easy. Interestingly enough, developing and maintaining good relationships is hard and takes just as much energy as does the arguing and fighting in poor relationships. The difference is that even though it is hard, it is more enjoyable — and you have something to show for it: meaningful relationships. Their focus is on preventing problems before they become unmanageable. Too often, people will wait until their problems are out of control before they seek the help they need. Sherman’s mission is to get the information out there in an accessible and positive way so people can use that information to “nip problems in the bud” and spend their time building on their strengths.